perempuan ketika bercinta

perempuan hanya boleh mencintai seorang sahaja lelaki dalam hidupnya. selebihnya kasih dah sayang mungkin akan tertumpah pada anak-anak mereka.
suami on the other hand, they can love many. that is why they are allowed to do poligami. dont deny it. but the truth is, kalau setakat boleh bercinta banyak, tapi tak mahu memberikan nafkah zahir, jangan fikir la ye wahai tuan-tuan. selagi masih terpaksa mengharapkan isteri bekerja bagi membantu urusan perbelanjaan harian, dan tidak mampu memberikan keperluan terutamanya kewangan, jangan harap la ya.
aku rasa sebab tu la isteri-isteri salih yaacob, tak boleh menghalang suami mereka berkahwin lain. memang mampu. tengok financial dia. kan? dari segi lain aku tak boleh komen sebab aku tak kenal dia.

perempuan kalau sudah mencintai seseorang itu, kekasih mereka buat salah banyak kali pun masih menerima. memang terus terang aku cakap, dari pandangan dan observation aku la kan, perempuan ni agak bodoh semasa bercinta. kerana hati kita lembut, perasaan sayang susah nak hilang dan kita ini sudi memaafkan.
terutamanya kalau itu adalah suami kita.

tujuan aku menulis post kali ini adalah kerana sahabat baik aku.
dia sudah break up dengan kekasihnya. di mana dia sanggup kehilangan kawan-kawan kerana lelaki ini. kami dulu berlima. selepas dia bercinta dengan lelaki ini, dia lupakan semua kawan dia kerana bagi lelaki itu kami ini adalah tidak baik. B*** S***
and she believe him. all because of love kan? and she ditch us!
(never ever left your friend for the sake of a love, stupid)
anyway, of course la lelaki yang suka mengcontrol perempuan atau kekasih dia for the sake and showing off how he is the man, arrogant and selfish tak kemana. di takdirkan lelaki ini curang. ada perempuan lain.and they broke off.

stupid enough, the girl who masa lepas break up so frustrated, change herself to the old her and try to connect back to her bff.
anyway, the guy suddenly realize that the new lover is nothing like her. and wants to get back together. for his reason is she is way much better.

and you guess it right, she forgive him and get back together. STUPID! so not worth it. if a guy ditch you for another girl, he is so not worth it! im telling you, he got the free ticket to do it again ! regardless dia cakap dah berubah ke ape ka, he knows if he did it again, he can always come back to you.
dia akan sentiasa buka option dia, to choose who is the best to be his lifelong partner.
seriously ladies, please, once is enough, how can you endure such pain over and over again from the same guy?

i can share you this, because i had gone trough a breakup. it is painful! worse it was a 5 years relationship.but im not stupid. a week is enough ladies to mourn over the relationship. dont mourn for the guy, but the time you waste for such a guy. and alhamdullilah lucky me Allah s.w.t has shown me what an a**h*** he is.until now.

but it is all up to you now ladies. as for my friend, she insist wants to give the guy a second chance. i wish her all the best. and of course she ditches us already now! hahahahah typical when girl is in love.
but i have learn my lesson, i am so lucky to have such bestfriend who stick with me regardless how i behave and teach me the value of friendship , love and life.

remember take the lesson you had in life as a guidance for the future. stupid enough to be fool once, dont make it happen again.