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16.11.11.
hari ini ada tarikh appointment dengan dokter Norlida at Al-Islam medical center kampung baru. last week dokter seluk kat bawah and says insya allah i will deliver my baby on this date. i was skeptical. come on how come doctor knows kan? hehe

arrive so early to avoid the jams. went in to give my appointment card and get a number 6001. haha 1st one to arrive. since my appointment is at 8.30am, i arrive at 7.30 am, park my car at the hospital and walked to mak wanjor nasi lemak(oh my last nasi lemak)

and then sharp at 8.30am the doctor called me in, scan the baby heart beat, check the position. all in. and then the seluk time. the opening is already 3 cm! owh no wonder last night i was cramping. and so the doctor told me that i need to be warded already. hehe. saya meminta izin untuk balik rumah dulu. of course the doctor says no. but i told her i came with only my wallet. so i want to go home and take my bags and my mummy. (biasalah dah besar pun bila sakit nak mak sendiri je kan)

called and sms hubby a few times. no answer sigh. called my mum told her im going into labour today but on the way home.everyone panicking cause im still driving. hahah i know 1st labour lambat. so drove home, had another shower, wash my hair again.get dress and my sister drove me back to the hospital.

mr husband is panicking, wanna take leave. (since he newly on the job, he cant have any leaves yet until confirmation,so if he take leave it is unpaid leave.so a no-no)told him no need as it will take forever to actually open until 10 cm. so he says okay.he will be on standby.
came by at lunch hour.

i only had mild contraction pain trough out until 5pm. then the nurses came with enema, went to the toilet , perform asar prayer and into the labour room. hubby came later as he went to the mosque and had early dinner(and his lunch too sian dia) before teman me.

into the labour room,a nurse check the opening. it is still 3 cm, called up the doctor and then the doctor ask to start induce. when the doctor came in the opening is 4cm and offered epidural.hesitate at first but accept it anyway. and i dont regret it. at least i am not in pain and the opening of 4cm to 10 cm is bearable.

at 11.00pm the nurses says i can push already as the opening is 10cm, i started to panic. hehe already remind my husband to hold my head and remind me to not angkat the punggung and pandang ke bawah masa push.alhamdullilah he remember and was amazingly guiding me trough out the labour.


he never leave my side. always help to reduce my pain. he even dare to look down there and told me he can see her head already. and when the baby come out and the doctor ask me if the baby is girl or boy i am confuse, but says girl eventually.


so far the whole labour process was okay for me. since i took epidural. and my family and husband all the time is there.


will update more later.


doktor jahit dalam.cara baru. so the next day i can walk already and at 6 days of pantang, i went to the hospital and walk like normally. owh my baby is jaundice.will tell the experience later on the next post.



i love my baby girl aleena so much.

or nik aleena nik mohamad farhan.

ALHAMDULLILAH

BABY ALEENA 2.97 KG AT 11.20PM ON THE 16.11.11. normal labour with induce because tak bukak but with epidural :-) my roofey. will update more on the story once my life is no more tunggang langgang.

is today the day? might be insya allah

will update soon ya. 16.11.11 overwhelming emotion :-) weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

waiting for it to happen(labour)

my notes. things to buy for my baby.and now it is complete.alhamdullilah.final touch for my baby crib. mind the blue cover up. to prevent dust and those extra cushion and throw away, from my bed.hehe tumpang katil anak sebab semak sangat katil mak bapak dia bila nak tidur. hiasan semata.


i dont think it is coming anytime soon.but then i am feeling some pain and it is getting intense.
while waiting, since i am already on leave, i just do nothing. haha seriously.nothing. resting. but i am helping my mum taking care of my 2 nieces. tomorrow is my hospital kuala lumpur check up and the next day is my al-islam medical center check up. i go both. even though i am planning to give birth in al-islam medical center, i just prepare in case they cant accept me for whatever complication and they have to refer me to government hospital.i am ready.

update so far

alhamdullilah all baby stuff is ready except minyak yuyi.muahahha lupa. never mind gripe water ada.

1. baby always keraskan perut. tapi tak sakit pun, alhamdullilah.i like it very much.
2.sakit sengal dah ada kat vajayjay, and perut cramp macam nak period tu ada. but i think it is still long way to go as perut seem to be so atas.
3.i dah start cuti until bersalin. sebab dah tak larat nak pergi kerja.
4.makan lalu so no problem here.
5.masih confuse nak beranak di al-islam medical center or hospital kuala lumpur.
6.tidur malam masih lena, sekali sekala ada hari yang kencing banyak ada hari ok sahaja.depend how much caffein i take that day from soda water, coffee or tea.hehe
7.kaki masih tak ada bengkak alhamdullilah.mak saya kata dia pregnant pun kaki tak bengkak.tangan saya pun cincin kahwin semua muat lagi. no problem as my weight mostly is at my tummy and buttock area only.
8.alhamdullillah asthma saya under control so far and batuk jugak sudah banyakkkkk kurang compare 9 months ago.
9.enjoying this few last day as a pregnant women.
10. tengah merancang if rasa nak bersalin , drive sendiri ke hospital kah? because my mum will take care of my niece, husband will be working. hahaa. aiyaaa

38th weeks check up!

i might be writing up till 40th weeks check up.haha since today doctor do a VE(vaginal examination) with hope i am dilating already! but nooOOOOOO.
none at all. she is so frustrated. wishing to admit me to the ward today!

dokter pula yang kecewa. kesian dia. i ok sahaja. although memang sangat excited nak jumpa my baby, but then if she is not ready to come out and play, stay inside where it is safer and warm.

owh the last entry i wrote that baby is 3.0kg! well well well typical MA (medical assistant) apparently she is not. she is only 2.6kg.(2.566 something something kg). i know already because when i ask the MA she dint even look back at the scanner. he just assuming. never mind, that is why i do 2 different check up at 2 different places.

other than that doctor says the amniotic fluid is okay, baby insya allah is okay. all we need to do now is wait.
wait shall we.
going out later to enjoy myself.hehe :-)

mummy and baby bags

i manage to prepare the bag by this week. properly pack everything.insya allah i have pack everything the way i should.

for mummy bag: (the list was given by Hospital kuala lumpur during atenatal class)
1)kain batik 3 pasang
2)baju butang depan 2 pasang
3)maternity pad
4)nursing bra
5)stocking and sweater
6)towel and toiletries
7)i add skirt and blouse (pakaian balik dari hospital)/maxi dress should be good too.
8)telekung and sejadah
9)breast pad

for baby bag:
1)baju butang depan 3 helai
2)seluar 3 helai
3)napkin 1/2 dozen
4)pampers 1 pack
5)booties and mitten
6)cotton
7)baby wipes
8)receiving blanket
9)baby toiletries and towel
10)barut baby
11)i add baby wash cloth and handkerchief. and baby shoe haha

i separated baby and mummy bag as it is easier for us to grab the stuff.
owh there is also list for those stuff such as thermos, piring, pinggan, cawan, sudu etc. i dont know if i need to bring those.but if in case i need will ask my mum to bring it later instead.

other than that dont forget the important document such as:
1.the pink book!
2.both parents ic
3.bukti kahwin(sijil nikah or kad perakuan nikah)
4.guarantee letter.
(the list apply if you want to give birth in government hospital)

owh never ever bring bottle or pacifier. memang kena rampas ye di hospital kerajaan.

37 weeks check up!

went to o&g department for check up. my 37 weeks. baby is doing masya allah very fine. she is now officially 3kg! omg how come she grow so fat. no wonder mummy tummy is so big now.
hehe.
clean up my room and pack baby and mummy bag already! yay!

and i went for a very challenging interview just now. let me say if i dont get it, i wont mind. it is such a good experience for me.
other than that i am content and very happy!

36 weeks baby progression.

went to the doctor just now.with lots of question.but end up asking nothing. kind a getting the answer already trough the internet since i am so freaking hardworking in doing my own research.

stomach is easily cramping now.i really cant lay down on the left side. i rather lay down on my right side. more comfy. sleeping on my back also alhamdullilah doesn't give me any problem so far even with my asthma.
my asthma and breathing is getting better. pantang ice sedikit, doa and the steroid i have been taking.

baby alhamdullilah is healthy i assume. doctor do the measuring and the baby weight currently is 2.4 kg. my weight doesn't increase at all! i ate like nobody business already.
but nevermind i dont think that is an issue since baby weight is increasing. by 2 weeks baby increase by 200g.sufficient enough for me. although the website that i have been following since my early pregnancy show that the baby should be 2.6kg by now. never mind she can gain that in 2 weeks time okay sayang.


i went to mothercare on saturday to buby baby aleena pajamas. but end up not buying. i dont know why. never mind can someone buy that for my baby as a present? the pink 10 in one baby pajamas. :-) from mothercare.


i am so tired nowadays. can simply fall asleep anywhere. not much energy left after work that i dont do any activities at all. today i walk a bit more and i felt so exhausted. but i need to go out later to settle all my bills. just thinking of it making me nausea and tired already.
other than the cramping i am alhamdullilah okay so far. and the baby movement still doesnt hurt me at all. i feel at ease and happy whenever she moves. i like the way she moves ahahahaha..

braxton hicks

semalam kan, saya rasa saya mengalami braxton hicks yang sakit sangat. mula-mula macam perut memulas nak buang air besar. tapi dah pergi toilet tidak pula.
subahanallah, seriously sakit gila.
dan doa saya semalam ialah tak mahu bersalin lagi sebab mengantuk! boleh?
hehehe...
lama sakit semalam. dah tak keruan duduk.
and they say it will hurt more than 10 times of what i felt yesterday. T_T
okay..epidural it is!

35th weeks check up

a waste of time. i dont wanna go anymore. can ar? it is such a waste. bosan. boring menunggu. masuk menjawab soalan yang sama for the past few months. and the doctor keep on adding drug to me. malas.

what do i know about my baby this week? nothing.

im tired. and malas. bye.

mc 2 hari

nikmat sangat sebenarnya. tapi kesihatan tak baik ni memang tak bagus. paru-paru rasa macam dah rosak. adoi. hari ni kena pakai nebulizer lagi. and injection hydrocortisone lagi. adoi.entahla...

Nipple discharge

i was browsing trough the internet this morning, when suddenly my husband notice my tshirt is kind a wet.owh then i notice that i have discharge coming out of my nipple! yikes. sticky colourless discharge. and what in the hell is that? before this there were some discharge, yellowish a bit.
yikes....is this normal people? im entering my 35th weeks of pregnancy,

35 weeks and sick

since i started pregnant i was never a healthy one. sick all way trough.imagine being coughing for the past 8 months , flu and wheezing occasionally.

this 3 days is the worst ever. i went to the emergency department for nebulizer and end up being injected with some corticosteroid. still i am in bad condition. today is no different but i am so weak to go all the way to the hospital.
how i wish i am a healthy pregnant women who just being concern about braxton hicks occasionally and cramping only. but as for me i have to deal with all this. asthma, and pregnancy stuff too.
now that i am coughing like hell, my upper side of stomach is cramping and i cry everytime i cough because it hurts so bad.

i am worry that my baby is affected to all this so bad. i feel even worse.
i am praying that i'll be healthy again. maybe all of this will go away once i deliver my baby girl.

baby at 34 weeks :-)

alhamdullilah baby is healthy. weight dah proportion to the weeks she should be in. and again insya allah she is a she. :-)
i got 2 days mc to rest. stay positive.
baby is now 2.241kg. i gain 500gm.
baby head is positioning down there.
her leg is on the right side. maybe because i slept most of the days on the right side.

now only i notice, yet to buy the baby diapers. hehe.
okay will do next time.

set bersalin

this is the hardest among all. which one should i buy? darn dont know how to make decision.any help please? what say you?

33 weeks check up

melampau kan every week check up sedangkan sepatutnya 2 weeks once.
blood pressure aku 105/66 pulse rate 120bpm.
hari ni check up jumpa dr houseman. so no scan nothing.
dia ukur perut saiz baru 30 weeks. pulse rate baby 169 beats per minutes.
aku tak tahu nak cakap ape.
hurm.
perut sakit gila sekarang.cramping cam period pain tu.
perut bahagian bawah cam lembek berlemak semacam.aneh plak aku rasa. ke sebelum ni memang ada?


next week my appointment with al-islam medical center.
and the other week is my combined clinic.

rasa sayu husband jauh. rasa down sikit hari ni.
jumpa dokter tak tahu progress sebenar baby.
entah okay entah tidak.
sedih pulak.
tak ada support.
hurm.

sekarang dah tak ada tenaga nak kerja. penat sangat. maybe pasal blood pressure low? hb low jugak kot.

Atenatal Class

i went to atenatal class in Hospital Kuala Lumpur. it is free and the information is sufficient enough. 4 hours long.
inclusive of breast feeding, birthing, exercising, birth control and touring.
maybe they should include how to take care of the newly born a bit. but i guess every mother will have its own way to take care of the baby.

since i am planning insya allah to deliver here, have mentally and physically ready to actually face the condition.
1st of all might be facing the problem of staying in the 3rd class warded. sigh.
2ndly might gonna go trough a long labour and will be so uncomfortable.

but nevermind.
i am in my 8th month or 32 weeks entering my 33 weeks.
insya allah gonna give birth next month. heh:-) cant wait to meet my baby girl but gonna miss this whole pregnancy as well.

i wanna use IUD for my contraceptive. as im planning 3 years apart. because of my health condition as well. i am sick everyday trough out my pregnancy. coughing, upper respiratory infection frequently and my asthma. not a good thing to be pregnant in such condition as i need lots of drug overcome this problem.

as for now i am trying to relax. no more 2nd job. just my 8am-5pm duty. weekend is for me to relax now. no oncall nothing.


i am husbandless for 1 weeks!
cant really handling this because i am too attach to him. missing him already. crying at night. feel so lonely.
no one to urut my leg, bring me water when im thirsty, no one to scold me for not eating, no one to rub my back when i cough in the middle of the night, no one to hug me before work, sob sob. 1 week. 1 day has passes by. 6 more days.

32 week check up

macam gile every week ada check up kan! thanks to 3 doctor visit every month i must says.

today doctor says baby is a bit small for this week. 2 weeks smaller.
and i'll be seeing her back in 2 weeks times.
sigh.

not so happy today. although many people says it is common and actual baby weight is bigger, i just dont like receiving this kind of news on my check up!. i just want to hear alhamdullilah everything is okay and normal.get it.

and i blame it all on my appetite. i just cant eat more. and i even eat less than i was before i am pregnant. how is that possible?
this is so upsetting. i am now going to eat more regardless i am hungry or not. sigh 2 month and im gonna wallap every food i can. sigh just thinking of it making me nausea already.

i have atenatal class this thursday.

hurm..

31 baby weeks check up.

went to clinic to do my check up.
nothing much on the pregnancy progression actually. more towards my asthma problem. gonna give sputum (my kahak) sample tomorrow due to my bad phlegm and lung infection.

my weight is static. as same as last month.
i have not much of appetite.

baby size is okay.heartbeat is 149 beats /minutes.

dont really like check up in hospital kuala lumpur. going to my al-islam medical check up this monday.

so far doctor says baby is no more breech. so i am happy with that,

making final decision on which baby cot to buy. probably gonna buy cheap rm300 baby cot because hubby says , if we wanna throw or even buy a new one no problem insya allah the rezeki will be there. no need to think much of long term investment.

so okay then.